These Twins Had Different Faces Until A Groundbreaking Surgery

featured-imageIn 1997, expectant mother Ramona Cooper was faced with the most difficult decision.


She already knew that she was expecting twins, but an ultrasound revealed an unexpected birth defect. One of her twin boys would be born with Pierre Robin syndrome, a facial disfigurement that affects an estimated 1 in 10,000 children.

Ramona brought her pregnancy to term and raised her sons, Gabriel and Haidin—it wasn’t easy, but the family stayed strong. Now, at 19 years old, Gabriel is living out a new chapter of his life.

Read on to learn more about the Cooper family and the outcome of Gabriel’s plastic surgery.


14. The Most Difficult Decision

001-14-the-most-difficult-decision-ce1e8a1bda3192db9ecc87dde26bdc6eThrough an ultrasound, doctors discovered that one of Ramona’s twin boys had Pierre Robin syndrome, giving him an underdeveloped jaw. Ramona was given the option to terminate Gabriel.

“I had to think for two months about keeping him,” she said. Significant medical problems affect babies born with this syndrome, including major difficulties in breathing and feeding.

13. Bundles Of Joy

002-13-bundles-of-joy-9967401fa217e7179f36fa35e08d116f“It wasn’t that I had a problem with him being disabled,” Ramona said. “I feared that one twin would grow to despise the other.”

Children with PRS usually reach full development and size. Their prognosis is quite good once breathing and feeding issues are overcome in infancy.

Ramona carried her pregnancy to term, and in March 1997, her boys were born.

12. A New Name

003-12-a-new-name-db150bba7acf68252dadaede01f77ce8“When he was born, all I could see was his hair,” she said. “I couldn’t see what the problem was, but then it became obvious that he didn’t really have a jawline.”

After learning of his condition, Ramona changed his name from Madison to Gabriel.

“As a woman of faith, I wanted him to have a guardian angel, so I named him after Gabriel,” she said.

11. Newborns

004-11-newborns-f615415cf7999f4a4005e44a9ff07b8e“I really didn’t know how people would respond to him or how the boys would be together,” Ramona said.

“The boys have had their problems, but I’ve never regretted keeping Gabriel—he is a wonderful son,” she added. The teenage years were tough for the boys, but most parents watch their children go through the same growing pains.

10. Growing Pains

005-10-growing-pains-5b398c085f01503b02a653a94cfc1011The family went through counseling during the boys’ teenage years. Haidin explained that he blamed himself for Gabriel’s condition. He feared that he had kicked his brother in the jaw while they were in the womb, but that’s simply not true. “I felt pretty good when I realized I had nothing to do with Gabriel’s appearance,” Haidin said. “I’m not sure why I felt responsible, but I just did—it was good when we established that wasn’t the case.”