Sex Therapists Say These “Performance Problems” Are Actually Super Common

9. Being Closed-Off In The Emotional Department
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Being attracted to your partner and pleasing them physically is only one part of the sexual experience. “We don’t know how to breathe, we don’t know how to relax and we are so goal, media, experience and image-driven that we have lost something the media doesn’t tout: sexual intimacy,” said Rebecca Hope Dnistran, MA, LMFT.

It’s all about getting to know your partner and their needs, and your love life will be back on track.