The question about what men want did not escape Gwen Montenegro in her previous job. She is currently a neuro-linguistic programmer, but her expertise in sex came from her previous career.
She was a professional sex worker.
As a high-class escort, she learned a lot about what men desire in bed. Luckily, she’s sharing it with the world. See below!
8. Slept With 10,000 Men
Gwen has now written a book about her experiences with more than 10,000 men and came to a general conclusion about what most men want in bed. She did an interview with the Australian news and opened up about her memoirs. You’ll never believe what she discovered as we begin on #7.
7. Trade Secrets
When a man wants a discrete encounter with a prostitute, the general consensus is most men want a freaky experience they can’t get anywhere else. People believe men are too embarrassed to make these requests from a girlfriend, so they pay a sex worker to fulfill a sick fantasy. She says, “A lot of them don’t want all this hardcore kinky sex…”
6. To Put It Plainly…
Gwen continued, “that’s such a small percentage of the men. I was in the industry for 12 years… that’s a long time. But I didn’t see a lot of the men that had these sick fantasies. Most of it was just normal sex.” The next thing they want in #5 is also pretty normal and quite sad.
5. It’s About Emotion
Some men just want to feel an emotional connection with a woman, even if it’s only for a short time. Even though most of Gwen’s clients new they were having a business transaction, most of them just wanted a connection. Gwen admitted, “It’s more than just sex…”
4. It’s Not Always Just About Sex
“There’s always a psychological motivation for sex, it’s not just a physical urge,” Gwen explains. “A lot of the clients I would see would be an hour plus and I mean sure, they wanted the sex, but a big part of my job was just talking.” The reason in #3 is a little more obvious.
3. Verifying Virility
Many men who visited Gwen for sex just needed some reassurance of their masculinity. They needed someone they could dominate, if only for a short time. It was undoubtedly something they couldn’t get at home. “They want to feel masculine again. They’re seeking validity for their virility. Virility is very important to men.”
2. Confused About Their Role
Gwen said some men are simply confused about modern day gender roles. Should they open the door for this woman? Will they get yelled at? Gwen says feminism has a part to play in modern men feeling emasculated. She concluded contemporary gender roles have made some men confused about relationships. We’ll explain why in #1.
1. Treat Her Like A Pretty Woman
Gwen wants men to feel comfortable with the gender roles as they change. It is not important to change with them. Continuing to be a gentleman and treating women as equals is important. Keep treating the women in your life with love and respect, guys. It’s easy to do and can have a positive effect on your sex life so you don’t have to pay for it.