A Quick Guide To Becoming A Clit-Licking God (Or Goddess)

Oral sex is an important part of any type of sexual relationship. While most of our media (read: porn) emphasizes the woman’s side of oral, the man’s side is just as crucial to sustaining a healthy sex life.

However, before you embark on an epic quest to her nether regions, read this list and take notes – #4 is a surefire way to make her love you.

10. Pleasure The Petal


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While many think the clit is the key to cunnilingus, the labia is actually equally as important in giving good head. It’s a sensitive, pleasurable middle-ground between the intensity of the clit and the foreplay of other areas on the vagina.

9. Don’t Forget The Foreplay


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Rushing straight to cunnilingus is a rookie’s mistake. The vagina needs to be aroused and wetted before it can be properly stimulated, so foreplay is essential – you just can’t skip to the orgasmic pleasures of #5 without it.

8. Tease Your Way Down


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Cunnilingus can seem like a daunting task, but don’t skip the basics. A solid head game requires a solid build up, so kissing your way down your partner’s body to her nether regions is a must when it comes to giving good oral.

7. Compliment Her Vagina


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While down on her, be sure to tell her that you love the taste and smell of her vagina. This may seem strange, but it helps eliminate any self-consciousness she may have about her private areas.

6. Labia First


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Before going to the clit, the labia must be attended to. Lick the inside of the labia while moving upwards. Once she’s aroused, you can get to the wilder parts in #1.

5. Onto The Clit


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The clit is the most sensitive area in the vagina, so handle it carefully. Start slow, then build up speed depending upon her reactions. This is a marathon, not a race.

4. Gauge Her Reaction


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Perhaps the most crucial part in all of sex, reading your partner’s pleasure (or displeasure) is vital to giving good oral. If she’s overly-sensitive when you touch her clit, back off; and if she’s pushing your head further into her crotch, keep at it.

3. Avoid Lock-Jaw


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Cunnilingus can be a delicate, slow process, so be sure to avoid cramping. Keep a relaxed jaw to keep your oral endurance in tip-top shape.

2. Find A Sustainable Rhythm


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Once you’ve gotten going on her, establish a steady rhythm. Then, after gauging her response, quicken or slow down your pace to better please your partner.

1. Don’t Fear The Finger


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A common mistake many men make when performing cunnilingus is that they assume it has to be done with solely the mouth.

While that’s possible, using your fingers to touch sensitive areas your mouth just can’t reach is incredibly important when it comes to attaining maximum satisfaction.

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