Pucker Up: 12 Things You Shouldn’t Be Doing While Kissing


It seems that with everyone experiencing the business of busyness, kissing is becoming a lost art. Add to that the onset of online and internet dating (speed dating anyone?), slow, lingering kisses are becoming a thing of the past.

Think about the last time you kissed for what seemed like eternity. How about the memory of your first kiss; that awkward yet heart-soaring moment when lips first touched.

While kissing is a delight and a pleasure in and of itself, there are some things you should never do while kissing. Here is a list of 10 of those things.

12. Go On A Mind Journey

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in wondering about what’s next on the to-do list. Never, ever do this while kissing. Your partner will feel your vibe and catch your distant energy. They may think you’re not that into them.
11. Have A Defense Strategy

While your in the midst of lip-lock, it’s never a good idea to have a defensive strategy running in your mind. Don’t worry about what he/she is thinking or going to do next, stay in the moment.


Analysis paralysis does not work when in kissing mode.

10. Have A Stare-Down

What would you rather do and what type of kisser would you rather be with – someone who closes their eyes and gets lost in the moment or someone who has a staring contest with you?


Close those eyes and let the rest of the world melt away. Enjoy that kiss!

9. Act As If All Kisses Are The Same

Not every kiss is the same. Everyone brings a little something-something to the table. Take time to notice how your partner likes to kiss and play follow the leader.

Don’t be too shy to ask how they like to be kissed. Then show them what you’ve got.