Introverted People: 25 Things You Should Know

Contrary to the common belief that an introvert is someone who is shy, it is not so, according to expert opinion.  Shyness is related to apprehension, anxiety and nervousness. Though an introvert may be shy it is not shyness alone that dictates the behavior of  introverted people. Basically introverted people derive their energy by being alone. When they are compelled to be socialized they lose the energy they have generated during when they have been alone. This means after socializing for some time, they lose their energy and need to recharge. This is why you find introverts sitting alone after parties looking exhausted.

Introvert personnel love their inner worlds and they are good thinkers. Introverted people enjoy exploring and thinking while they are alone. They normally dislike socializing due to the fact that they lose the energy they have generated by being alone in case they socialize. Often, they have good social skills but they are reluctant to use them. When an introvert stays away from socializing it cannot be assumed that it is due to depression. It is either due to their need of refreshing themselves with energy after a social event or it is also possible that they want to take time thinking about something. This is the behavior of introverted people.

It is not correct to think that introverts are averse to meeting people and discussing things. They do meet people and discuss about matters that are important to them. But they generally do not like to talk about trivial matters that other people normally talk while they are in social gatherings. These are a few aspects one must know about people who show signs of introvert behavior. Knowing them will be helpful for others to interact with people who are more inclined to be alone most of the time.

The following are some of the important facts about introverted people

1- Your Guide
A guide for you
A guide for you

An introvert is a person who is so reserved as if he is living in a Hamster ball of his size. By doing so, he gains energy which is the major trait of such people. This is the major difference between introverted people and a withdrawn person who doesn’t gain energy by being alone. In contrast, extroverts gather their energy by associating with others.

2- Loneliness Leads to Hopelessness
Introverted girl
Introverted girl

In case you find a person with an introvert personality being away from social activity you must not think that he or she is antisocial. That is the way such a person will replenish the lost energy through socializing.

3- Trying to Fit
Struggle to be social
Struggle to be social

Staying with visitors is a nightmare for introverted people for the simple reason that they need be ready to use up their energy all the time.

4- Friends Do Listen
Friends can rescue youo
Friends can rescue youo

When you look at the behavior of an introvert you will feel as if he is one who is ready to die alone.

5- Escaping to Justification
Discussions with no results
Discussions with no results

Introverts are people who are able to derive energy for themselves. When they socialize they lose this energy generated by them making it necessary for them to recharge.

6- Thinking May Be Pragmatic
Thinking alone
Thinking alone

In case one asks a question from an introvert he might give thought to the question before giving the answer. This must not be misunderstood as if he is trying to judge the particular person who asked the question.

7- Prefer Working Alone
Working alone and secluded
Working alone and secluded

Since introverted people are generating their own energy it becomes a limited resource for them. Therefore, they do not want to lose it by socializing with others. This is why they are repulsive to socializing.

8- Change in Weekends
Loneliness over the weekend
Loneliness over the weekend

When an introvert spends a beautiful week end all alone, he will miss the company of friends but when you ask him “how was the week end” his answer will be that it was fine.

9- Purposeful Hanging Out
Socializing for some reson
Socializing for some reson

When an introvert is not invited for events because he misses them out with various excuses what they feel is that they like to hang around with friends but they prefer to go home and stay alone.

10- Leading to Improvements
Guideline on social issues
Guideline on social issues

It doesn’t mean that introverted people do not like company of others. They keep away because it is expensive for them as they need to spend their energy.

11- Escape to Unknown
Escape to unknown
Escape to unknown

For introverted people too many social events with no time to be alone mean grumpy situations.

12- Decision Not No Action
Results ask for actions
Results ask for actions

When one with introvert personality is invited to hang out he will feel nervous for the simple reason that he don’t want to do so, but still he is not happy to hurt the feelings of others.

13- Alones Need Company
Alone in rain
Alone in rain

One with introvert personality who will go to a party and wants to leave early. When his companion doesn’t want to agree with him on leaving early he feels that no one understands him.

14- Discussions for Company
Hating to be social
Hating to be social

When an introvert is asked to take part in a group project, she knows that she will hate the time she is going to spend with it but that is the way it goes with introverts.

15- Looking at Nowhere
Looking at infinity
Looking at infinity

It is common for introverted people to hear others asking them whether they are ok or why they are so quiet because they are only interested in talking about important matters and also only listen to such matters.

16- Basics of Approach
Training starts at home
Training starts at home

An introvert will say that he wants to have some time to be alone whenever his only friend who normally hangs about with him is around.

17- Alone Even if Outside
Alone to no where
Alone to no where

Introverts normally get scared when the phone rings because they are not happy to interact with people. They are not prepared mentally for chatting with people.

18- Alone Facing Mirror
Deciding things at your own
Deciding things at your own

Normally introverted people will show extra outgoing look to their intimate friends because they don’t want them to think that they hate their friends.

19- Relaxing and No Action
Self esteem or just laziness
Self esteem or just laziness

In case introverted people spend a social night out they will need to rest for a few days to replenish their lost energy.

20- Linking to Nature
A group discussion brings results
A group discussion brings results

Introvert personnel may feel like going out but the feeling will not be there for long.

21- Afraid of Unknown
Not my choice indeed
Not my choice indeed

When introverts are asked to go and take part in social events the immediate thought that come to their minds is that there are people there.

22- Seeking Silence
Is silence the best option?
Is silence the best option?

It is normal for introverted people to find that everyone is chatting when they try to get a job done by someone.

23- Books’ Friend
Yes, option to read books can be healthy
Yes, option to read books can be healthy

An introvert is a person who is capable of carrying a book to a public place but people around will think that his book is a good topic to start a conversation. However, an introvert personality thinks that books love anyone who opens them and they carry all sorts of stories.

24- Introverted People Struggling Alone
Playing alone and secluded
Playing alone and secluded

They are people who are engaged in thought most of their time. In case someone disturbs them they get angry in an irrational manner.

25- Self Deception
Self pity or self deception
Self pity or self deception

People think that introverts are peculiar people for the simple reason that they enjoy doing things all alone.

Now you are aware of the traits of an introvert personality. Therefore, you will be able to understand them better. They are not people who do not like the company of others. They like company of people who will not disturb their thoughts. However, they are not happy to over indulge in socializing as they lose their energy in case they do.

In case you like to associate with introverted people you need to take care. The best way to do that is to show that you recognize them and like their presence. You could say hello to one with introvert personality and be polite and relaxed with him in order to not to scare him away. The most important aspect on having association with one of them is to make him feel that you welcome him. They are people who are not happy to spend their energy on associating people who are not prepared to welcome them. Also, you must not try to force them to talk gossip with you. They are people who are interested on talking about serious matters and not trivial things everybody will talk about. However, it is necessary for you to go back and engage in what you were preparing to do when you have an encounter with one with an introvert personality. Since the introvert knows that he is welcome in your environment the possibility is there for him to start interacting with you. In case he does, you must make sure that you don’t get him to use up his energy in associating with you. These are the basics of associating with introverted people.

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