The Essential List Of Sex Tips From Real Women

Want to make sure that the lady in your life is getting everything she needs when the lights go out?

You don’t need to suddenly become an Adonis or invest in a gallon of champagne. All you need to do is learn to spice things up a little bit.

How are you going to do that? Simply, slowly and with a little bit of thought. So to get the ideas flowing, we got some sex tips from real women and you won’t believe how easy most are to put into practice or how mind blowing the results are. So let’s get started, shall we?

12. Talk Her Into It

You don’t have to leave everything to touch. You can rock her world even before you get to the bedroom by talking dirty. Grab her, tell her what you’re going to do with her. Be confident and that will get her hot for you. The best sex begins in the mind.

11. Kiss Her Where She Want To Be Kissed

Get your head above the waistline, sunshine. We’re talking kisses of the erogenous rather straight up erotic kind. Nuzzle her neck, nibble on the earlobes, savor her shoulder blades, let her know that there’s more to this than what’s downstairs. Do it right, and she’ll soon be begging for you to move lower anyway. Think that sounds easy? Wait until you see tip number eight.

10. Don’t Forget The Boobs

Breasts aren’t just there for decoration. They’re an erotic pair of parts in their own right. Kiss them, nibble them, stroke them, nip them, there’s so much you can do with her boobs and she’ll be grateful when you do, very grateful indeed. You may even find that it makes it much easier for her to get to the finishing line, if you catch our drift.

9. Get Handy With Yourself

Sometimes there’s a real thrill in knowing how much your partner wants you. If you’re confident enough to touch yourself (in the way that you would in private) in front of your lover, it will help her see how desirable she is to you. Getting handy with yourself will get her hot for you.

8. Let Her Be In Command

We said at the start that you wouldn’t have to put in too much effort. This is the easiest tip of them all! Lie back, and let her take control. She knows what she wants, let her take it. It’s hot, filthy and so, so right. You may find this works well with tip number 5, so check out that out before you start.

7. Get Wringing Wet

The bath and the shower are awesome places to get things moving in the right direction. Baths, in particular, can help you both lose your inhibitions because the bubbles make all the minor imperfections go away and boost her confidence. Just make sure to keep the water warm, freezing is rarely sexy.

6. Find The Right Spot

Look, she’s not a machine, but at the same time, she kind of is. There’s a way to make those bits down there hum with pleasure, you’ve just got to spend a little time looking for the right spot to stimulate. Once you’ve found it – start slow and work up to a crescendo.

5. Bring On The Porn

It’s never mentioned, but it’s not just guys who enjoy a good bit of visual stimulation; many women do too. Just try and pick something that’s a little less “gangbang” and a little more “erotica.” At least until she says differently. This can really help with tip number two as well, so don’t miss it.

4. Spoon And Then Bring It On

If you wake up and you’re spooning together, don’t waste the early morning oomph. Take your hand, follow the inside length of her thigh, gently start stroking her, get her motor running and then just move things forward. It’s an amazing way to start the day, trust us.

3. You Don’t Have To Take Your Clothes Off

Sometimes sex can start to feel a little formulaic. One lady tells us that the easiest way to break that is to stop getting naked. Just pull some of your clothes out of the way to make access easy and then go for it. She says it’s like starring in your own porn.

2. Bring Out Her Fantasies

The porn from tip #5 can help you discover her fantasies and then act on them. She’ll love you for taking the time to care about what she wants. Just ask her what’s working for her and go from there. No need to rush, and you might want to use our next tip to help complete the moment.

1. Get The Toys Out!

Sex play is supposed to be fun. Toys are a complete win in this respect. Don’t be intimated by them, be aware that even a simple vibrator can add a huge additional dimension to your love making and make it much easier for her to get off. Go wild with the toys.


You don’t have to spend a fortune or learn anything really complicated to make your sex life better for your female partners.

These 12 tips should be a great way to get you started. Once you’ve exhausted them all, you might want to look around for more ideas.

What do you think are the best ways to get your lover off? Which of these tips do you think you’ll put into practice first? Is there anything that you think might not work for you? Tell us all about it in the comments below, we’re dying to hear from you.


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