New relationships are always exciting, and the foreplay and sex involved are often incredibly hot. After all, half the fun of a new relationship is exploring each other for the first time. But as time goes on and you get to know the person better, sex can also become even better — if you’re willing to explore just a bit more.
Often, couples who have been together for a few years feel bored with their sex life. It can even become non-existent. Fortunately, there are a few great ways to spice up your sex life and make it feel like you’re in a new relationship again.
Check out these sexy foreplay tricks that will help you burn up the sheets!
10. A Little Teasing Goes A Long Way
Teasing is one of the simplest and most effective ways to spice up your love life. The beauty of knowing your partner well is knowing what will set them off. Try teasing them with a few words or a little extra skin in the morning before you head off to work. Chances are, they’ll be thinking about those words, or that skin, for the rest of the day!
9. Mastering “The Look”
You know the look you used to get (or give!) when you first started dating? Remember how it felt, then try it out again. Give your partner a little extra wink or a salacious smile that promises something special will happen tonight. Sometimes a look of longing is all that you need to get your partner in the mood for more. Once you’ve mastered this trick, try what’s on the next slide!
8. Use Your Phones For A Little Sexting Time
Spend your day apart sending text messages. Detail what you want to do to each other when you get home! By the time you get home, you’ll both be turned on and wanting each other. You might not even make it to the bedroom! Once you’re there, try out this next foreplay trick.
7. Everyone’s A Little Kinky
Let’s face it. Whether you want to admit it or not, we’re all a little kinky. The best part about knowing your partner is having the trust to tell them what you really want. Whatever you want. Try out kinky ideas you have, from some light bondage to using toys. Explore what works best for you!
6. Pick Up Your Partner For A One-Night Stand
Pretend you’re strangers and get all dressed up. Go to the bar and flirt with each other across the room. Buy your partner a drink, or enjoy the one they bought for you! Take them home and act like it’s the first time all over again. Bonus points for a little PDA along the way. For nights you just want to stay home, check out the next foreplay trick!
5. Read A Dirty Story To Your Partner
Women often feel turned on reading erotica. So why not read it together? Pick a dirty story to read out loud and watch as it turns both of you on. Once you’re ready to go, act out the dirty story with your partner. Or, opt for the next foreplay trick to drag things out a little bit more.
4. Three Words: Full Body Massage
Everyone loves a relaxing massage, so why not make it a turn on? Strip naked, grab some massage oil and give each other a full-body massage. Focus on their erogenous zones. Kiss their neck while you massage their shoulders. Figure out what makes your partner shiver and focus there.
3. Pick Up A Foreplay Game
There are some really great foreplay games on the market. Go to the local adult store (or shop online) and buy one. There are plenty to pick from, including dice games, drawing straws with suggestions, or playing a little card game. Take your purchase home and play together! Or, if you’re feeling really adventurous, grab the game and follow the next tip!
2. Think Outside The Bedroom
Who says that sex is reserved for the bedroom only? Start your foreplay in the car, or while you’re cooking dinner together in the kitchen. You could even start teasing your partner in your backyard if you’re feeling particularly bold. The next time you’re in the car, or outside under the stars, you’ll be reminded of the great time you had there.
1. Take Some Food With You
Finally, foreplay can absolutely include food! Grab the whipped cream out of the fridge, or the honey off the shelf and pour it all over your partner’s body. Then, spend some extra time licking it all off. The waiting will be a fun agony, and you can shower together when you’re all done!
The most important part of foreplay and sex is to find what you and your partner truly enjoy. Spicing up your foreplay can also help bring you close to your partner again. Remember to be open and honest about what you want.
Creating some sexual tension can be erotic and fun! When you tease each other and explore new places together, you create lasting memories and add another element of closeness. The best ideas are often the most simple and also the most unexpected.
Adding these foreplay tricks can help strengthen your relationship! Which of them are you most likely to try?